shawn,a friend of mine,always say "ever"is transitory and "for ever"is a only perpetuity...

　　but I prefer "ever" to "for ever".

　　quite a surprise when I heard the comprehension about "ever" and "for ever" from shawn in today's time.It's obvious that everything is temporary,nothing lasts.as our age,we have grown up with the idea that in order to develop personal security we need stability,consistency and familiarity.yet we live a world,which in every respect is continually changing.changes are coming fast and faster.in a sense CHANGE has become a way of life.the only people who will live successfully in tomorrow's world are those who can accept and enjoy temporary systems.in other words,"for ever"perhaps will become a substitute of temporary in the future.

　　most of us expect and demand communication and understanding,shared values and goals,intellectual companionship,great moments of intimacy and so on...

　　i consider you think so similarly,aren't you?

　　throw the "for ever" off and think well of present time.it will become every "ever" of your memory,and all this "ever" also will make up of your brilliant and particular life...

　　may be when you are too old to stroll up the garden path independently,you will approve what I say here today.

　　just my personal opinion after I first time saw your self-information in your QQ(1707634).